Defining Yourself With Courage

All too often, the only thing that stands in our way and prevents us from living the life we want is ourselves. It’s what we do (or don’t do), and it’s about what we think. In fact, it is what we think that helps us sabotage our success or happiness, because thoughts always precede actions. I know all of this. I know how our beliefs limit our lives, meaning that we hold on to what no longer serves us, or we simply fail to live out loud, shine and be the blessing we are meant to be.

I really DO know this! And yet today a good friend shared this poem, and I loved it so much I’ve copied it to the blank front page of my journal. I knew I had left it blank for a reason.

And do you know why I loved it? Because I actually sat at the end of it and went, “wow!” This is how I want to define my life! Yet what I’ve actually been doing is exactly the opposite. In my head and heart, I have been defining it by my failures, my roadblocks and my disappointments. I have been focussing on where I went wrong with love instead of what went right – or IS right. I’ve mainly kept looking at my own pain, and the pain I caused others, and at what went wrong in my past when life was “mainly normal” instead of seeing that all of this IS normal. And it’s all amazing grace, and love and adventure.

May these words also make you see life in a different way. Be free.

I do not define myself by how many roadblocks have appeared in my path;
I define myself by the courage I’ve found to forge new roads.

I do not define myself by how many disappointments I’ve faced;
I define myself by the forgiveness and the faith I have found to begin again.

I do not define myself by how long a relationship lasted;
I define myself by how much I have loved, and been willing to love again.

I do not define myself by how many times I have been knocked down;
I define myself by how many times I have struggled to my feet.

I do not define myself by the number of mistakes I have made;
I define myself by the knowledge I have learned from trying a new way.

I am not my pain.

I am not my past.

I am that which has emerged from the fire.

Author Unknown

0 thoughts on “Defining Yourself With Courage

  1. Beelkirk July 13, 2013 / 5:45 pm

    Love it! So true. You should repost this at least once a month.

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