Erma Bombeck – If I had my life to live over

Erma Bombeck was famous for her humourous column called “At Wit’s End,” and for being part of the Good Morning America team.  She fought hard for equal rights for women., and was ostracised by certain elements of American society as a result. By 1985, her columns were published across 900 different newspapers in the United States and in Canada.  Since she was 20, she’d lived with polycystic kidney disease, and then in her mid fifties, she was diagnosed with breast cancer which she survived, only to die a few years later from complications after an operation for the kidney disease.  She wrote these words before her diagnosis….
If I had my life to live over
 “If I had my life to live over, I would have talked less and listened more.

 I would have invited friends over to dinner even if the carpet was stained and the sofa faded.

I would have eaten the popcorn in the ‘good’ living room and worried much less about the dirt when someone wanted to light a fire in the fireplace.

I would have taken the time to listen to my grandfather ramble about his youth.

I would never have insisted the car windows be rolled up on a summer day because my hair had just been teased and sprayed.

I would have burned the pink candle sculpted like a rose before it melted in storage.

I would have sat on the lawn with my children and not worried about grass stains.

I would have cried and laughed less while watching television – and more while watching life.

I would have shared more of the responsibility carried by my husband.

I would have gone to bed when I was sick instead of pretending the earth would go into a holding pattern if I weren’t there for the day.

I would never have bought anything just because it was practical, wouldn’t show soil or was guaranteed to last a lifetime.

Instead of wishing away nine months of pregnancy, I’d have cherished every moment and realized that the wonderment growing inside me was the only chance in life to assist God in a miracle.

When my kids kissed me impetuously, I would never have said, “Later. Now go get washed up for dinner.

There would have been more “I love you’s”. More “I’m sorrys.”

But mostly, given another shot at life, I would seize every minute… look at it and really see it … live it…and never give it back.”

0 thoughts on “Erma Bombeck – If I had my life to live over

  1. Ani July 18, 2012 / 2:38 pm

    I discovered one of Erma’s books in a dusty box in the basement of one of my foster homes. Her wit and insight got me through some tough times. A beautiful soul!

    • happinessvirus July 18, 2012 / 2:50 pm

      She was a beautiful soul.. aren’t we lucky to be blessed by others who write their own wisdom. I often thought of this quotation when I got caught up in the busy-ness of life… but it was a sobering lesson, often repeated to me in different words by my ex husband’s old aunt. And even yet, I keep nothing for good, apart from a tablecloth I use only on high days and holidays…

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